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#1 Financial Priority After Marriage

Our wedding is coming up and today we had a long talk about the future of our financial priorities after marriage. While we have many financial goals, we feel it's best to focus on just one in order to make rapid progress. With the recent payment a relative made on Her's private student loan debt, paying that off has suddenly become feasible in the short term (as opposed to the 29 years left on the loan, we can now imagine paying it off in under TWO years). So that will be our very first financial goal as a married couple. What was your first financial goal as a twosome?

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Shan | Aug 20, 2008

Shortly after we got married, my wife and I attacked our credit card debt in preparation of getting into a house.

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Laura | Aug 20, 2008

Our first goal was to get 3 months of expenses in an emergency fund.
Our next goal is to pay off my high interest debt in the form of a car loan (about $1500 left).

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financial fitness | Aug 20, 2008

Getting husband's $70k debt paid off.

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Amanda | Aug 20, 2008

Saving for a down payment is definitely #1 for us, although the husband's student loans are a close #2!

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Becky@FamilyandFinances | Aug 21, 2008

My husband and I were both homeowners before we got married, so priority #1 for us was selling my house. Since then, we've been saving a large emergency fund and saving up for home improvements.

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Chris | Aug 21, 2008

We paid off the highest of the wife's students loans (at 7.5% interest) and then saved for a year for a down payment on a house.

All other student loans are sub 3% interest and we will never prepay them.

After we bought a house, it was time to ramp up the emergency fund savings to take into account the increase in mortgage payments vs. our old rent amount.

Now, we save for travel and cars (and retirement).

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MoneyBeagle | Aug 21, 2008

This is a great point! My wife and I have been married for just under a year, and this was something we talked about and decided upon before we were even married. Our goals became to pay off her auto loan early (done - in two years, which was half the time of the original loan) and to then concentrate on her student loan debt (going well). This is definitely something that should be talked about and agreed by both parties!

Keep up the great writing and good luck on the rest of the wedding planning!

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MVP | Aug 25, 2008

To combine finances, agree on a budget and pay off debt. Check, check and check (2.5 years later)!

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Pamela | Aug 30, 2008

We were fortunate not to have any debt other than my husband's mortgage. Unfortunately, we had no savings. So the first order of business was to save 6 months living expenses (it was a recession).

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Moneymonk | Sep 2, 2008

My hubby had $500 in debt, so getting a house was a breeze.

My hubby is a good saver, I'm a good invester.

So I guess it worked out fine

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Sue Scaletta | Sep 6, 2008

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Writer's Coin | Sep 7, 2008

Saving for a down payment is for sure our number one priority, although we're also saving for a nice honeymoon trip.

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